Enticing and seducing your partner is a great way to feel wonderful about yourself and is an excellent way to keep the romance alive in your relationship. So long as the focus is simultaneously on your own confidence and your own relationship with your body, then spending the time and energy on doing things that your partner will find super sexy can be equally rewarding.
Being sexy for your partner should always be for both of you. It can make you feel more confident, and more importantly, it can actually make you more comfortable seeking out pleasure and finding it. On the other end, your partner will be rewarded with enticing visuals and experiences because at the end of the day, you both deserve to feel good and enjoy the other fully.
Take Control of Your Pleasure
One of the sexiest things that you can do is take control of your own pleasure. Not only will you get more out of sex by doing this, but you can also put on a highly arousing show that can add a great new dynamic to your relationship. You don’t need to be on show, either. By using sex toys like dildos, you can extend the sex you have with your partner in a variety of ways. Enjoying yourself, pleasuring yourself, and having fun are all exceptionally sexy things you can do that will get your partner (and yourself) going.
Dressing up can help highlight the qualities of your body that you are personally most proud of. Just as putting on a fancy outfit and gussying up before a night out can increase confidence and make you infinitely more sexually appealing, so too can dressing up for the bedroom. Not only can dressing up for the bedroom be a huge turn-on for your partner, it can also be incredibly intimate and sexually arousing for yourself as well.
You can practice different and new sex positions you have picked out for both of you alone or together. Practice alone if you want to surprise your partner with a new experience or work together to find the best new positions. Don’t assume that you can or should have to get by with your imagination alone. Looking online for tips and advice is an excellent way to expand your sex life and find new ways forward for both of you.
The journey you take can go in directions you never expected, but so long as the communication is open and you both feel safe and comfortable, there is no wrong way to take your relationship.
Be Confident and Love Yourself
One of the sexiest things you can ever do is love yourself and be confident. If you find it difficult to do, then work on yourself. This could be done through therapy, exercising and finding that inner strength, and being kinder to yourself with self-affirmations, and even through self-expressing art forms like photography. Loving yourself and your body can be difficult, but it is the single sexiest thing you can do that both you and your partner will appreciate.